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According to many investigations, most people, 98% of those interviewed, have had sexual fantasies at some point or the other. Still, for many people this matter remains a taboo, for they regard sexual fantasies as “sick” behavior.
The truth is that fantasies of sexual nature, for both men and women, are mental representations that are produced voluntarily or involuntarily in our minds from the puberty age. Besides, the fact that a person has a sexual fantasy does not necessarily mean that he/she wishes to put it into practice. Many people confuse sexual fantasy with sexual desire. However, that’s not the case. The former refers to the evocation of a fictitious situation whereas desire can be considered as the anticipation of a real situation.
According to the experts, sexual fantasies are a mechanism that helps us to relax, release tensions and also improve our sex lives. How? What are the main functions of sexual fantasies?
- Creating or hiking sexual arousal. Some people use the fantasy to set a sexual situation in motion, others for reaching a state of greater stimulation.
- Relieving anxiety and guilt. Sexual fantasies are like a psychological escape valve to vent internal needs and tensions.
- Increasing the confidence. Fantasizing enhances both the psychological and physiological aspects of the sexual response by counteracting monotony. Fantasizing enables to make sure that the very image, and that of the partner, meets our needs.
- Controlled rehearsal. For many people sexual fantasies serve to anticipate a situation that they wait for eagerly. They prepare them for what they must expect, thereby anticipating the possible difficulties.
Today we know that women fantasize as much as men do, though the two do not have the same sexual fantasies. According to some studies, there are some differences that mark the fantasies according to the gender.
The sexual fantasies of men are more direct and specific. Visual stimulation and acts are the most important things for them. This means that men directly seek the underlying purpose.
Although it cannot be considered as universal, the classification of male erotic fantasies goes as follows:
#1 Threesome: Having two girls in the same bed is one of the most common fantasies and this is because it provokes a feeling of dominance over the female gender.
#2 Exhibitionism: Having sex in a public or forbidden place. The possibility of being observed or discovered feeds the male sex drive.
#3 Sex with a celebrity: It isn’t important for her to be a known escort or anything, because the important thing is for her to be a celebrity.
#4 Fetishes: Many of men’s sexual fantasies include fetishes that might include any part of the body, objects or underclothes.
#5 Roleplay: Being in the bed with a woman who pretends to be someone else is one of the most common erotic dreams among men.
If men are more direct, the sexual fantasies of women tend to rely on more elaborate stories wherein the appearance is more important than emotions. According to experts, women fantasize more during fertile days, almost twice, regardless of whether they have a partner or not.
Below are the 5 most common sexual fantasies of women:
#1 Sex with an acquaintance: Having sex with a colleague, friend, acquaintance, a boss… somebody who is not your partner.
#2 RPG games: The fantasy of being another person is also a fantasy of women and this is not just because it is a roleplay game but rather a game of power.
#3 Having sex in a public place: It is one of the most common erotic fantasies in the female world.
#4 Threesome: Unlike men, women fantasize about having sex with other women as well. When we talk of threesome in women’s sexual fantasies, it is to be understood as a threesome with two girls than the threesome with two men.
#5 Dominant: Although women like strong and daring men, they like to swap roles from time to time.
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